Growing Gains: How a New Table Turned Into a New House!
Updated: Oct 6
It all started when I talked Matt into going to “look” at new dining room tables. Those who know me know I don’t do much “looking” when I shop!
And... of course... we left with the receipt for our new table.
My house of one had grown to a house of five in the blink of an eye… and my four-person dining room table could not seat us all. Of course we needed a new table, right?!
The house itself is a tight fit, but there’s enough space for us to manage. A fixer-up I bought as a first-time homebuyer not long after my mom died, it also has sentimental value. I scrapped pennies and baseboards to get her fixed up just right.
We had no real timeline for moving. Matt was content with staying put for a while.
That is… until the day the new table arrived.
The table is BEAUTIFUL! It comfortably seats six, and it’s a step up from the quality of some of the other features in the house.
“I think it’s time to start looking for a house” Matt confidently announced, just days after the new table came.
I looked at him and laughed. “It’s the table, isn’t it?!”
And it was!
We didn’t have to look for long! A couple weeks later, we were under contract with a builder finishing up the last development phase in a neighborhood that checked all our boxes.
The builder broke ground on our lot about the same time the pandemic broke out. As businesses and stores closed their doors, we escaped to our lot to anxiously wait and watch every intricate step of the building process. So far, our construction hasn't been impacted by COVID-19.
Trees came down, concrete came in, and the walls went up. I have learned a lot about building houses!
Our overall experience with our builder has been phenomenal. We have been floored with the efficiency and consistency of each crew that comes through for their part.
That said, our frequent trips to the house have enabled us to catch several things along the way that weren’t done right the first time. Just last week, an exterior outlet was bricked into the back porch in the wrong spot. Thankfully, we caught it before the brick masons moved on to the next house.
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P.S. And guess what?! We have decided to keep my first house! The stars aligned and the perfect opportunity presented itself for a close family friend to call her home. We couldn't be happier.